How to Network When You Hate Networking
Networking Without the Awkwardness
Today, we’re tackling a challenge many UXers dread: networking.
So, what is networking anyway?
At its core, networking is building genuine relationships with others to exchange ideas, support, and opportunities. It’s not just about getting ahead in your career—it’s about creating connections that enrich your personal and professional life.
But let’s be honest: networking can feel awkward, forced, and even intimidating—especially for introverts or those new to the field.
Today, we’ll show you how to approach networking with confidence, even if it’s outside your comfort zone.
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Today’s Highlights
Key Insight: How to Build Connections Without the Awkwardness
Why Networking Feels Hard
The Golden Rule of Networking: Focus on Giving, Not Taking
Authentic Ways to Start Conversations
The Importance of Following Up (and How to Do It)
UX Question of the Week: Best Advice on Networking
Practical Tips: Networking for Introverts in 10 Minutes a Week
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Job Board: Fresh UX Roles
Resource Corner: Tools and Reads for Effective Networking
Tool of the Week: Icebreaker by Warmly
Key Insight: How to Build Connections Without the Awkwardness
Networking doesn’t have to mean handing out business cards or attending awkward mixers. Instead, think of it as building relationships based on shared interests and mutual values.
Why Networking Feels Hard
For many UXers, networking feels unnatural because:
It’s Not Taught: UX programs focus on skills like prototyping and user research, but rarely on professional relationship-building.
It Feels Transactional: Asking for referrals or jobs can feel self-serving if not done thoughtfully.
Introverts Overthink It: Worrying about the “perfect thing” to say can make starting conversations harder.
The Golden Rule of Networking: Focus on Giving, Not Taking
The best networking happens when you:
Offer Value First: Share a resource, compliment someone’s work, or ask thoughtful questions.
Listen More Than You Speak: People remember how you made them feel, not how much you talked.
Stay Genuine: Networking isn’t about pretending to be someone you’re not—it’s about being authentically curious.
Example: Instead of saying, “Can you refer me to your team?” try, “I loved your case study on accessibility—can I share it with my team?”
Authentic Ways to Start Conversations
In Person:
Compliment someone’s talk or portfolio.
Ask what inspired them to attend the event.
Online:
Leave a thoughtful comment on someone’s LinkedIn post or project.
Send a DM like: "Hi [Name], I saw your post about [topic], and it really resonated with me. Would you mind sharing more about how you approached [specific aspect]?"
Through Mutual Connections:
Ask a colleague or mutual friend to introduce you.
Example: "I noticed you worked with [mutual connection]. They mentioned you’re an expert in [topic]—I’d love to learn from your insights."
The Importance of Following Up (and How to Do It)
Making a connection is just the first step. The real magic happens when you follow up.
Send a Thank-You Note: After a conversation, send a quick message expressing gratitude. Example: "Thanks for taking the time to chat at [event]! I really enjoyed hearing your perspective on [topic]."
Share Resources: If you promised to send an article or link, follow through. This builds trust.
Keep It Casual: Check in occasionally with updates, not just when you need something.
Community Spotlight: What’s the Best Advice You’ve Received About Networking?
This Week’s Answer:
"Networking isn’t about collecting contacts; it’s about building relationships."
The best connections happen when you approach people with curiosity and kindness, not just when you need something. Invest in the relationship first, and the opportunities will follow.
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Practical Tips: Networking for Introverts in 10 Minutes a Week
If networking feels overwhelming, start small:
Monday: Leave a thoughtful comment on a LinkedIn post.
Wednesday: Send one DM to a professional you admire.
Friday: Follow up with someone you’ve already connected with.
Consistency builds relationships without feeling like a chore.
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Resource Corner: Tools and Reads for Effective Networking
Book: Give and Take by Adam Grant – Learn why helping others is the key to building meaningful professional relationships.
Article: Work Speak: The Right Way to Network by Vasundhara Sawhney
Webinar Recording: Networking in UX by UXU – A quick, inspiring talk for anyone struggling with traditional networking.
Tool of the Week: Icebreaker by Warmly
Starting conversations can be tough, but Icebreaker by Warmly makes it easier by generating insightful talking points about the people you meet online.
Here’s how it helps:
Research someone’s background instantly (like shared interests or recent projects).
Generate personalized icebreakers to start meaningful conversations.
Integrate directly into LinkedIn or virtual meetings.
Final Note | Networking Without the Awkwardness
Networking isn’t about being outgoing or collecting contacts—it’s about building real relationships. Focus on giving value, staying curious, and showing up consistently. The connections you build today might just change your career tomorrow.
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